{"id":20081,"date":"2023-01-17T15:07:20","date_gmt":"2023-01-17T06:07:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jjvision.org\/?p=20081"},"modified":"2023-01-17T16:29:17","modified_gmt":"2023-01-17T07:29:17","slug":"%ec%82%ac%eb%9e%91%ec%9d%98-%ec%97%ac%ec%84%af6-%ea%b0%80%ec%a7%80-%ec%96%b8%ec%96%b4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jjvision.org\/?p=20081","title":{"rendered":"\uc0ac\ub791\uc758 \uc5ec\uc12f(6) \uac00\uc9c0 \uc5b8\uc5b4"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>(\uc6b0\ub9ac \uac00\uc871\uc744 \uc0b4\ub9b0 \uc6c3\uc74c\uc758 \uae30\uc801)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\uac1c\ub9ac \ucc44\ud504\uba3c(Gary Chapman)\uc740 &lt;\uc0ac\ub791\uc758 \ub2e4\uc12f \uac00\uc9c0 \uc5b8\uc5b4&gt;\ub77c\ub294 \ucc45\uc5d0\uc11c \uc0ac\ub791\ubc1b\uace0 \uc788\ub2e4\uace0 \ub290\ub07c\uac8c \ud574\uc904 \uc218 \uc788\ub294 \ub2e4\uc12f \uac00\uc9c0 \uc0ac\ub791\uc758 \uc5b8\uc5b4\uac00 \uc788\ub2e4\uace0 \ud588\ub2e4. \uccab\uc9f8\ub294 \uae0d\uc815\uc758 \ub9d0(words of affirmation)\uc774\ub2e4. \ubd80\ubaa8\ub85c\ubd80\ud130 \ud654\ub97c \ub0b4\uac70\ub098 \ucc45\ub9dd\ud558\ub294 \uc18c\ub9ac\ub97c \uc790\ub140\ub4e4\uc774 \ub4e3\uac8c \ub418\uba74, \uc790\ub140\ub4e4\uc740 \ubd80\ubaa8\uac00 \uc790\uc2e0\uc744 \uc0ac\ub791\ud558\uc9c0 \uc54a\ub294\ub2e4\uace0 \ub290\ub080\ub2e4. \uc544\ub0b4\ub098 \ub0a8\ud3b8\uc73c\ub85c\ubd80\ud130 \uc9dc\uc99d \uc11e\uc778 \ub9d0\uacfc \ubd88\ud3c9\ud558\ub294 \ub9d0\uc744 \ub4e3\uac8c \ub418\uba74, \ubc30\uc6b0\uc790\ub85c\ubd80\ud130 \uc544\ubb34\ub7f0 \uc0ac\ub791\uc744 \ubc1b\uc9c0 \ubabb\ud55c\ub2e4\uace0 \ub290\ub080\ub2e4. \ubc18\uba74\uc5d0 \uce6d\ucc2c\uc744 \ub4e3\uace0 \uc704\ub85c\uc758 \ub9d0\uacfc \uaca9\ub824\uc758 \ub9d0\uc744 \ub4e3\ub294\ub2e4\uba74, \ub0b4\uac00 \uc0ac\ub791\uc744 \ubc1b\uace0 \uc788\ub2e4\ub294 \uac83\uc744 \ub290\ub07c\uac8c \ub41c\ub2e4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ub458\uc9f8\ub294 <a><\/a>\uc758\ubbf8 \uc788\ub294 \uc2dc\uac04(quality time)\uc744 \ud568\uaed8 \ubcf4\ub0b4\ub294 \uac83\uc774\ub2e4. \uc0ac\ub791\ud55c\ub2e4\uba74 \uac19\uc774 \uc788\uace0 \uc2f6\uc5b4 \ud560 \uac83\uc774\ub2e4. \uac19\uc774 \uc788\uc5b4 \uc8fc\uc5b4\uc57c \uc0ac\ub791\ud558\uace0 \uc788\ub2e4\ub294 \uac83\uc774 \uc0c1\ub300\ubc29\uc5d0\uac8c \uc804\ub2ec\ub420 \uac83\uc774\ub2e4. \uc0ac\ub791\ud55c\ub2e4\uace0 \ud558\ub294\ub370, \uc815\uc791 \ud568\uaed8\ud560 \uc2dc\uac04\uc744 \ub0b4\uc904 \uc218 \uc5c6\ub2e4\uba74 \ub098\ub97c \uc0ac\ub791\ud558\uc9c0 \uc54a\ub294\ub2e4\uace0 \uc624\ud574\ud558\ub294 \uac83\uc774\ub2e4. \uc790\ub140\ub4e4\uc740 \ubd80\ubaa8\uc640 \ud568\uaed8 \uc2dc\uac04\uc744 \ubcf4\ub0b4\uace0 \uc2f6\uc5b4 \ud55c\ub2e4. \ud558\uc9c0\ub9cc \ubc14\uc058\ub2e4\uace0 \ud558\uba74\uc11c \uc800\ub9ac \uac00\ub77c\uace0 \ub0b4\ubc00\uc5b4\ubc84\ub9ac\uba74, \uc0ac\ub791\ubc1b\uc9c0 \ubabb\ud55c\ub2e4\uace0 \uc0dd\uac01\ud558\ub294 \uac83\uc774\ub2e4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\uc14b\uc9f8\ub294 \uc120\ubb3c\uc744 \ubc1b\ub294 \uac83(receiving gifts)\uc774\ub2e4. \uc0ac\ub791\uc740 \ub2e8\uc21c\ud788 \uac10\uc815\uc73c\ub85c\ub9cc \uac00\uc9c0\uace0 \uc788\uc744 \uc218 \uc5c6\ub2e4. \uadf8 \uc0ac\ub791\uc744 \ub290\ub084 \uc218 \uc788\uac8c \uc791\uc740 \uc120\ubb3c\uc774\ub77c\ub3c4 \ud574\uc8fc\uc5b4\uc57c \uc0ac\ub791\ubc1b\ub294\ub2e4\uace0 \ub290\ub084 \uac83\uc774\ub2e4. \uc5ec\ub7ec \uc544\uc774\uac00 \uc788\ub2e4\uba74 \ub611\uac19\uc740 \uc120\ubb3c\uc744 \uc77c\ub960\uc801\uc73c\ub85c \uc8fc\ub294 \uac83\ubcf4\ub2e4, \uadf8 \uc544\uc774\uc5d0\uac8c \uaf2d \ud544\uc694\ud55c \uc801\ud569\ud55c \uc120\ubb3c\uc744 \uc8fc\ub294 \uac83\uc774 \ud544\uc694\ud558\ub2e4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ub137\uc9f8\ub294 \ud544\uc694\ud55c \uc21c\uac04\uc5d0 \ub3c4\uc6c0\uc758 \uc190\uae38\uc744 \ub0b4\ubc00\uc5b4\uc8fc\ub294 \uac83(acts of service)\uc774\ub2e4. \ubc30\ub824\ud574\uc8fc\uace0 \ub3c4\uc640\uc8fc\uba74, \ub0b4\uac00 \uc0ac\ub791\ubc1b\ub294\ub2e4\ub294 \uac83\uc744 \ub290\ub07c\uac8c \ub41c\ub2e4. \ub2e4\uc12f\uc9f8\ub294 \uc2e0\uccb4\uc801\uc778 \ud130\uce58(physical touch)\uc774\ub2e4. \uc190\uc744 \uc7a1\uc544\uc8fc\uace0 \ub4f1\uc744 \ub450\ub4dc\ub824\uc8fc\uace0 \uc548\uc544\uc8fc\ub294 \ub4f1 \uac00\ubcbc\uc6b4 \uc2e0\uccb4\uc801 \uad50\uac10\uc740 \ub0b4\uac00 \uc0ac\ub791\ubc1b\uace0 \uc788\ub2e4\ub294 \uc0ac\uc2e4\uc744 \ub290\ub07c\uac8c \ud574\uc8fc\ub294 \uac83\uc774\ub2e4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\uc774\uc640 \uac19\uc740 \ub2e4\uc12f \uac00\uc9c0 \uc0ac\ub791\uc758 \uc5b8\uc5b4\ub294 \uc6b0\ub9ac\uc5d0\uac8c \ud544\uc694\ud558\ub2e4. \uc815\uc791 \uc0ac\ub791\ud558\uace0 \uc788\uc73c\uba74\uc11c\ub3c4 \uadf8 \uc0ac\ub791\uc744 \uc774\ub7ec\ud55c \uc5b8\uc5b4\ub85c \ud45c\ud604\ud558\uc9c0 \uc54a\uc744 \ub54c, \uc0ac\ub791\ubc1b\uc9c0 \ubabb\ud55c\ub2e4\uace0 \uc624\ud574\ud558\uace0, \uacb0\uad6d \ub9ce\uc740 \uc5b4\ub824\uc6c0\uc774 \ubc1c\uc0dd\ud55c\ub2e4. \uc774 \uc138\uc0c1\uc5d0 \uc790\ub140\ub97c \uc0ac\ub791\ud558\uc9c0 \uc54a\ub294 \uc0ac\ub78c\uc774 \ub204\uac00 \uc788\uc744\uae4c? \ubd80\ubaa8\ub77c\uba74 \uc815\ub9d0 \uc0ac\ub791\ud560 \uac83\uc774\ub2e4. \uc5ed\uc73c\ub85c \uc774 \uc138\uc0c1\uc758 \uadf8 \uc5b4\ub290 \uc790\ub140\uac00 \ubd80\ubaa8\ub97c \uc0ac\ub791\ud558\uc9c0 \uc54a\uaca0\ub294\uac00? \ub0a8\ud3b8\uc744 \uc0ac\ub791\ud558\uc9c0 \uc54a\ub294 \uc544\ub0b4\uac00 \uc5c6\uc744 \uac83\uc774\uace0, \uc544\ub0b4\ub97c \uc0ac\ub791\ud558\uc9c0 \uc54a\ub294 \ub0a8\ud3b8\uc740 \uc5c6\uc744 \uac83\uc774\ub2e4. \uc774 \uc138\uc0c1\uc758 \ubaa8\ub4e0 \uac83\uc744 \ub2e4 \ud3ec\uae30\ud558\uace0 \uc120\ud0dd\ud55c \ubc30\uc6b0\uc790\uac00 \uc544\ub2c8\ub358\uac00? \ubb38\uc81c\ub294 \uadf8 \uc0ac\ub791\uc774 \ub9c8\uc74c\uc18d\uc5d0\uc11c\ub9cc \uc788\uace0, \uc81c\ub300\ub85c \uc804\ub2ec\ub418\uc9c0 \uc54a\ub294\ub2e4\ub294 \ub370 \uc788\ub2e4. \ud2b9\ud788 \uc720\uad50\uc801 \ubb38\ud654 \uc18d\uc5d0\uc11c \uc790\ub77c\uc628 \uc6b0\ub9ac\ub294 \ud45c\ud604\ud558\ub294 \ub370 \uc11c\ud234\uace0, \ub54c\ub85c\ub294 \ub9c8\uce58 \ubbf8\uc6cc\ud558\ub294 \uac83\uc778 \uc591 \ud589\ub3d9\ud560 \ub54c\uac00 \ub9ce\ub2e4. \uadf8\ub798\uc11c \uc774\ub7ec\ud55c \ub2e4\uc12f \uac00\uc9c0 \uc0ac\ub791\uc758 \uc5b8\uc5b4\ub97c \uc798 \ubc30\uc6b0\uace0 \ud45c\ud604\ud558\ub294 \ud6c8\ub828\uc744 \ud574\uc57c \ud55c\ub2e4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\uadf8\ub7f0\ub370 \uac1c\ub9ac \ucc44\ud504\uba3c\uc740 \uc815\ub9d0 \uc911\uc694\ud55c \uc0ac\ub791\uc758 \uc5b8\uc5b4\ub97c \uc5b8\uae09\ud558\uc9c0 \uc54a\uc558\ub2e4. \uadf8\uac83\uc740 \ubc14\ub85c \ubc1d\uac8c \uc6c3\ub294 \uac83(smiling)\uc774\ub2e4. \uc774\uac83\uc740 \uc5ec\uc12f \ubc88\uc9f8 \uc5b8\uc5b4\ub77c\uae30\ubcf4\ub2e4\ub294 \uac00\uc7a5 \uba3c\uc800 \uadf8\ub9ac\uace0 \uac00\uc7a5 \uc911\uc694\ud558\uac8c \uc5b8\uae09\ub418\uc5b4\uc57c \ud560 \uc0ac\ub791\uc758 \uc5b8\uc5b4\uc774\ub2e4. \uc548\ud0c0\uae5d\uac8c\ub3c4 \uc6b0\ub9ac\ub294 \ub298 \ud654\uac00 \ub09c \ubaa8\uc2b5\uc774\ub2e4. \uc548\ud0c0\uae5d\uac8c\ub3c4 \uc6b0\ub9ac\ub294 \ub298 \uc9dc\uc99d \uc11e\uc778 \ubaa8\uc2b5\uc774\ub2e4. \uc548\ud0c0\uae5d\uac8c\ub3c4 \uc6b0\ub9ac\ub294 \ub298 \uc9c0\uce5c \ubaa8\uc2b5\uc774\ub2e4. \uadf8 \ubaa8\uc2b5 \uc18d\uc5d0\uc11c \uc6b0\ub9ac\ub294 \uac70\ubd80\ub2f9\ud55c\ub2e4\ub294 \ub290\ub08c\uc744 \ubc1b\ub294\ub2e4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\uc790\ub140\ub4e4\uc740 \uc5c4\ub9c8\uc758 \uc0ac\ub791\uc744 \uac08\ub9dd\ud55c\ub2e4. \ub54c\ub85c\ub294 \ucda9\ubd84\ud558\uac8c \uc0ac\ub791\uc744 \ubcf4\uc5ec\uc900 \uac83 \uac19\uc740\ub370\ub3c4, \ub354 \ub9ce\uc740 \uc5c4\ub9c8\uc758 \uc0ac\ub791\uc744 \uc694\uad6c\ud560 \ub54c\uac00 \uc788\ub2e4. \uadf8\ub9ac\uace0 \uadf8 \uc0ac\ub791\uc744 \uc5bb\uae30 \uc704\ud558\uc5ec \ub54c\ub54c\ub85c \uc090\ub531\ud55c \uc77c\uc744 \ud558\uace4 \ud55c\ub2e4. \ub0b4\uac00 \ub098\uc05c \uc9d3\uc744 \ud558\uba74 \ud560\uc218\ub85d \uc5c4\ub9c8\uc758 \uad00\uc2ec\uc744 \ubc1b\uc744 \uc218 \uc788\uae30 \ub54c\ubb38\uc774\ub2e4. \ud558\uc9c0\ub9cc \uadf8\ub7f0 \uc21c\uac04\uc5d0 \uc5c4\ub9c8\ub294 \uadf8 \uc544\uc774\uc5d0\uac8c \uc9d1\uc911\ud558\uace0 \ucd5c\uc120\uc744 \ub2e4\ud574 \ub3cc\ubcf8\ub2e4. \uadf8\ub7f0\ub370 \uadf8 \uc5bc\uad74\uc5d0\ub294 \uc6c3\uc74c\uae30\uac00 \uc0ac\ub77c\uc9c4 \uc9c0 \uc624\ub798\ub2e4. \ub3c4\ub300\uccb4 \uc6b0\ub9ac \uc544\uc774\uac00 \uc65c \uc774\ub807\uac8c \uc090\ub531\ud558\uac8c \ub098\uac00\ub294\uac00? \uc65c \uc798\ubabb\ub41c \uae38\ub85c \uac00\ub294\uac00? \uadfc\uc2ec\uacfc \uc5fc\ub824 \ub54c\ubb38\uc5d0 \uc544\uc774\ub4e4\uc744 \ub300\ud560 \ub54c, \uc5bc\uad74\uc740 \uadfc\uc2ec\uacfc \uc218\uc2ec\uc774 \uac00\ub4dd\ud558\ub2e4. \uadf8\ub798\uc11c \uc790\ub140\ub4e4\uc740 \uc5ec\uc804\ud788 \uc0ac\ub791\ubc1b\uc9c0 \ubabb\ud55c\ub2e4\uace0 \ub290\ub080\ub2e4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud55c\ub54c \uc6b0\ub9ac \uc9d1 \uc544\uc774\ub4e4 \uac00\uc6b4\ub370 \ud55c \uc544\uc774\uac00 \uc544\uc8fc \uc2ec\uac01\ud55c \uc704\uae30\uc758 \uc21c\uac04 \uac00\uc6b4\ub370 \uc788\uc5c8\ub2e4. \ubaa8\ub4e0 \uac83\uc744 \uc758\uc2ec\ud558\uace0, \ubaa8\ub4e0 \uac83\uc744 \ubd80\uc815\uc801\uc73c\ub85c \ubc14\ub77c\ubcf4\uace0, \uc790\uc2e0\uc758 \ubaa8\ub4e0 \uac83\uc5d0 \ubd88\ub9cc\uc744 \ud45c\ud558\uba70, \uc2dd\uc74c\uc744 \uc804\ud3d0\ud558\uace0 \uc2ec\uac01\ud55c \uc6b0\uc6b8\uc99d\uc5d0 \ube60\uc9c4 \uc801\uc774 \uc788\uc5c8\ub2e4. \uadf8\ub7f0 \uc544\uc8fc \uc5b4\ub824\uc6b4 \uc77c\uc744 \uacaa\uc740 \ub54c\uac00 \ub0b4\uac00 \ubbf8\uad6d\uc5d0\uc11c \ubaa9\ud68c\ud558\uba74\uc11c \uacf5\ubd80\ud558\uace0 \uc788\ub358 \ub54c\uc774\uc5c8\uace0, \uc544\ub0b4\uc640 \ub538\uc740 \ud55c\uad6d\uc5d0 \uc7a0\uc2dc \ub098\uc640 \uc788\uc744 \ub54c\uc600\ub2e4. \uadf8\ub54c \uc544\ub0b4\ub294 \ub0b4\uac8c \uae34\uae09\ud558\uac8c \uc544\uc774\uc758 \uc0c1\ud669\uc744 \uc124\uba85\ud558\uba74\uc11c \uc774 \uc544\uc774\ub97c \uc5b4\ub5bb\uac8c \ud560\uc9c0 \ubb3c\uc5c8\ub2e4. \uc8fc\ubcc0 \uc9c0\uc778\ub4e4\uc758 \uad8c\uc720\ucc98\ub7fc \uae30\ub3c4\uc6d0\uc5d0\ub77c\ub3c4 \ub370\ub9ac\uace0 \uac00\uc11c \ub9e4\ub2ec\ub824\ubcfc\uae4c? \ubb3c\uc5c8\ub2e4. \ub098\ub294 \uadf8\ub7ec\uc9c0 \ub9d0\ub77c\uace0 \uadf8\ub7ac\ub2e4. \ubb3c\ub860 \uae30\ub3c4\ub97c \ud558\uba74\uc11c \ub9e4\uc5b4 \ub2ec\ub9ac\ub294 \uac83\uc774 \uc633\ub2e4. \ud558\uc9c0\ub9cc \uadf8\uac83\uc740 \ubd80\ubaa8\uac00 \uc740\ubc00\ud55c \uac00\uc6b4\ub370 \ud558\ub098\ub2d8 \uc55e\uc5d0\uc11c \ud574\uc57c \ud560 \uc77c\uc774\uc5c8\ub2e4. \uadf8 \uc544\uc774\ub97c \uae30\ub3c4\uc6d0\uc5d0 \ub123\uc5b4\uc11c, \uadf8 \uc544\uc774\uc5d0\uac8c \u201c\ub108\ub294 \ubb38\uc81c\uc544\uc57c. \uadf8\ub798\uc11c \uc774 \uae30\ub3c4\uc6d0\uc5d0 \ub370\ub9ac\uace0 \uc628 \uac70\uc57c\u201d \uadf8\ub7f0 \uba54\uc2dc\uc9c0\ub97c \uc8fc\uc785\ud574 \uc8fc\uc5b4\uc11c\ub294 \uc548 \ub41c\ub2e4\uace0 \uc0dd\uac01\ud588\ub2e4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\uc544\ub0b4\ub294 \uc544\uc774\uc758 \uc0c1\ud0dc\ub97c \ub3d5\uae30 \uc704\ud558\uc5ec \ub9ce\uc740 \ub178\ub825\uc744 \ud588\ub2e4. \uc774\ub7f0 \uacbd\uc6b0\uc5d0 \uc5b4\ub5bb\uac8c \ud574\uc57c \ud560 \uac83\uc778\uc9c0\ub97c \ubc24\ub9c8\ub2e4 \uc804\ubb38\uc11c\uc801\uacfc \uc790\ub8cc\ub4e4\uc744 \uc815\ub3c5\ud558\uba70 \uc5f0\uad6c\ud588\ub2e4. \uc544\uc774\uc758 \uc0dd\uc0ac\uac00 \uac78\ub9b0 \uc77c\uc774\uae30\uc5d0 \uc544\ub0b4\ub294 \uadf8 \uc5b4\ub5a4 \ub54c\ubcf4\ub2e4\ub3c4 \ud76c\uc0dd\uacfc \uc218\uace0\ub97c \ub9c8\ub2e4\uce58 \uc54a\uc558\ub2e4. \uadf8\ub7ec\uba74\uc11c \uc544\ub0b4\ub294 \uc544\uc774 \uc55e\uc5d0\uc11c \ubc1d\uac8c \uc6c3\uc73c\uba70 \ub300\ud558\uae30\ub85c \ud588\ub2e4. \u201c\ub108 \ub54c\ubb38\uc5d0 \ub0b4\uac00 \uadfc\uc2ec\uacfc \uac71\uc815\uc774 \uc774\ub9cc\uc800\ub9cc\uc774 \uc544\ub2c8\ub2e4, \ub108 \ub54c\ubb38\uc5d0 \uc5c4\ub9c8\uac00 \ud798\ub4e4\uc5b4 \uc8fd\uaca0\ub2e4.\u201d\ub77c\ub294 \uba54\uc2dc\uc9c0\ub97c \uc808\ub300\ub85c \ubcf4\uc5ec\uc8fc\uc9c0 \uc54a\uae30\ub85c \uacb0\uc2ec\ud588\ub2e4. \ub9c8\uce58 \uc544\ubb34 \uc77c\ub3c4 \uc5c6\uc5c8\ub358 \uac83\ucc98\ub7fc, \uadf8\ub0e5 \uc544\uc774\uc640 \ud568\uaed8 \uc6c3\uace0 \uc990\uae30\uae30 \uc2dc\uc791\ud588\ub2e4. \ube44\ub85d \uc5c4\ub9c8\uc758 \ub9c8\uc74c\uc18d\uc740 \ud53c\ub208\ubb3c\uc744 \uc3df\uace0 \uc788\uc744\uc9c0\uc5b8\uc815 \uac89\uc73c\ub85c\ub77c\ub3c4 \uc6c3\ub294 \ubaa8\uc2b5\uc744 \ubcf4\uc5ec\uc8fc\ub294 \uac8c, \ubc1d\uc740 \ubaa8\uc2b5\uc73c\ub85c \ub300\ud558\ub294 \uac8c, \uadf8\uac8c \ub0b4\uac00 \ub108\ub97c \uc0ac\ub791\ud558\uace0 \uc788\ub2e4\ub294 \uac83\uc744 \ubcf4\uc5ec\uc8fc\ub294 \uac83\uc774\ub77c\uace0 \ubbff\uc5c8\uae30 \ub54c\ubb38\uc774\uc5c8\ub2e4. \uadf8\ub9ac\uace0 \ud63c\uc790 \uc788\uc744 \ub54c, \ud558\ub098\ub2d8 \uc55e\uc5d0\uc11c \ud391\ud391 \uc6b8\uc5c8\ub2e4. \uac10\uc0ac\ud55c \uac83\uc740 \uadf8 \uae30\uac04\uc774 \uc9e7\uac8c \ub05d\ub0ac\ub2e4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\uc6c3\ub294 \ubaa8\uc2b5\uc73c\ub85c \ubc1d\uac8c \ud589\ubcf5\ud558\uac8c \uc544\uc774\ub4e4\uc744 \ub300\ud558\ub294 \uac83\uc774 \uc544\uc774\ub4e4\uc744 \uc0ac\ub791\ud55c\ub2e4\ub294 \uac83\uc744 \ub290\ub07c\uac8c \ud574\uc8fc\ub294 \ubc29\ubc95\uc774\ub2e4. \uc6c3\ub294 \ubaa8\uc2b5\uc73c\ub85c \uc544\ub0b4\uc640 \ub0a8\ud3b8\uc5d0\uac8c \uc11c\ub85c \ub300\ud558\ub294 \uac83\uc774 \uc11c\ub85c\uac00 \uc0ac\ub791\ud558\uace0 \uc788\ub2e4\ub294 \uac83\uc744 \ub290\ub07c\uac8c \ud558\ub294 \ubc29\ubc95\uc774\ub2e4. \uadf8 \uc5b4\ub5a4 \uc0ac\ub791\uc758 \uc5b8\uc5b4\ubcf4\ub2e4 \uc6c3\ub294 \uac83\uc774 \uac00\uc7a5 \uc911\uc694\ud558\ub2e4. \uc544\ub9c8\ub3c4 \uac1c\ub9ac \ucc44\ud504\uba3c\uc774 \uc774\ub7f0 \uc774\uc57c\uae30\ub97c \uc368\ub123\uc9c0 \uc54a\uc740 \uc774\uc720\ub294 \ub300\uccb4\ub85c \ubbf8\uad6d \uc0ac\ub78c\ub4e4\uc740 \ubc1d\uac8c \uc6c3\ub294 \uc0ac\ub78c\ub4e4\uc774\uae30 \ub54c\ubb38\uc77c \uac83\uc774\ub2e4. \uadf8\ub798\uc11c \uc6c3\uc9c0 \uc54a\uace0 \uc2ec\uac01\ud55c \uc5bc\uad74\ub85c \uc9dc\uc99d \ub09c \uc5bc\uad74\ub85c \uc0c1\ub300\ubc29\uc744 \ub300\ud558\ub294 \uac83\uc774 \uc5bc\ub9c8\ub098 \uc704\ud5d8\ud55c\uc9c0\ub97c \ub9d0\ud574\uc57c \ud560 \ud544\uc694\ub97c \ubcc4\ub85c \ub290\ub07c\uc9c0 \ubabb\ud588\uae30 \ub54c\ubb38\uc77c \uac83\uc774\ub2e4. \ud558\uc9c0\ub9cc \uc6b0\ub9ac\ub098\ub77c \uc0ac\ub78c\ub4e4\uc774 \uac00\uc7a5 \uc911\uc694\ud558\uac8c \ubc1b\uc544\ub4e4\uc5ec\uc57c \ud560 \uc0ac\ub791\uc758 \uc5b8\uc5b4\ub294 \uc6c3\uc5b4\uc8fc\ub294 \uac83\uc774\ub2e4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ub098\ub97c \ud798\ub4e4\uac8c \ud558\ub294 \uc544\uc774\uc77c \uc218\ub85d \ub354 \uc6c3\ub294 \uc5bc\uad74\ub85c \ub300\ud558\uace0, \ub098\ub97c \ud798\ub4e4\uac8c \ud558\ub294 \ub0a8\ud3b8, \uc544\ub0b4\uc77c\uc218\ub85d \uc6c3\ub294 \ubaa8\uc2b5\uc73c\ub85c \ub300\ud574\uc57c \ud55c\ub2e4. \u201c\uc6c3\uc73c\uba74 \ubcf5\uc774 \uc628\ub2e4\u201d \uc796\uc544\uc694? 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